Marriage is a significant milestone for anyone, but for many Indian professionals living in the U.S., it comes with an unexpected hurdle. If you don’t have an approved I-140, your spouse on an H4 visa can’t legally work in the country.
This often leads to years of waiting before your partner can even apply for a work permit. That lengthy pause can really weigh on you — not just financially, but also in terms of confidence and career development.
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Couples often find themselves facing a tough decision: should they tie the knot now and deal with the long wait, or postpone marriage until work permits are a reality? Neither choice is straightforward, and both involve sacrifices.
The truth is, this waiting period is more than just lost time. It can complicate future job searches since employers typically look for recent work experience. Skills that once sparkled can start to dull when they’re not used for years.
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On top of that, living without a dual income can affect family planning, savings, and long-term stability. The emotional burden of not being able to contribute professionally can also weigh heavily on the spouse who’s left waiting.
However, this challenge can be navigated. Some people use this time to pick up new skills, network online, or volunteer remotely to stay active and engaged.
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Getting married without an approved I-140 is a true test of patience and partnership. It requires open conversations about sacrifices, dreams, and shared aspirations. This situation calls for looking beyond the immediate frustrations to focus on the bigger picture of building a life together — step by step, while waiting for the right moment.
